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3 creative ideas for Easter fun with kids

Easter is all about family, food and fun. Here are three creative ideas to make your holiday more fun. Best of all, you don’t have to be a ‘craft master’ to do any of them (I would never tell you to do something that I couldn’t do myself, and I can’t craft my way out of a paper bag.) Enjoy!

1. Let the kids hide some eggs for you. It’s fun to fill the eggs, hide the eggs, then watch the kids run around trying to find them. And the look on their faces when they score a “cool” egg filled with their favorite candy or treat? Quick, grab the camera!

This year, let the kids experience the joy of doing something fun for someone else. Help younger ones Continue reading ’3 creative ideas for Easter fun with kids’

The creative power of red fuzzy dice

The other day my ten-year-old son came home from a trip to the arcade with a pair of red fuzzy dice. You know, the kind you hang on your rearview mirror, if you happen to be a fuzzy dice kind of person, which…I am not. He hands them to me with a big grin.

“Here Mom! I got these for you. I won enough tickets to get something for me and for our family.”  His face is beaming with a degree of happiness that I see less and less as he grows older and “cooler.”

I hold the dice in my hands. They are very fuzzy. Very huge. Very red. Very noticeable. This was not going to be like wearing the bracelet made out of macaroni. This would be more like wearing the brown paper bag hat decorated with stick figure puppies and “Mom” all over it. In public.

Now, don’t get me wrong–it’s not like I’m too sophisticated for fuzzy dice. One of my favorite Continue reading ‘The creative power of red fuzzy dice’

Creative thinking for Alzheimer’s patients: the story of the fake bus stop

Think creativity doesn’t matter? That it has to be this complicated, moody artist kind of thing? That it doesn’t apply to you? That it can’t help the world?

At its heart, creativity is about solving problems. And if you have ever known someone with Alzheimer’s or dementia, you know that one of the biggest problems that you can’t solve is their burning need and unspeakable desire to go home. If you ask her where home is, she can’t say. She doesn’t know where it is. She’ll get more agitated. She might even cuss you out or shove you, this mild-mannered woman who taught piano and loved ballroom dancing. It’s this insatiable desire that drives her to leave her apartment or assisted living facility and wander the streets, alone and confused, searching endlessly in vain, for that place, that idea, that feeling she knows is home.

I see it in the tired lines of my father’s face when the police found his wife wandering a busy street at 5am last year–he usually stayed awake all night to watch her, but this night, he was human. This night, he fell asleep.

So when I read about the simple, creative solution that the Benrath Senior Center in Germany came up with, I thought–no, wait, that’s too easy. Why didn’t someone think of this sooner? And how can we get this up and running in American nursing homes? Continue reading ‘Creative thinking for Alzheimer’s patients: the story of the fake bus stop’

How to start a family holiday journal

So you’re thinking about starting a family holiday journal–good for you! It’s a great way to capture your family’s holiday experiences, traditions and wishes in their own words and handwriting. Plus, it’s simple, inexpensive and fun for everyone.

For older relatives who may be uncomfortable writing or have vision problems, ask them what they remember and write it down for them. Little kids can draw or scribble on the page.

Journaling can help older kids write better and think more creatively, even if writing is not their favorite thing. My son, who is 10, does not like to write (yes, this kills me because I am a writer), but he eagerly writes in our holiday journal. It’s fun to look back and see what we were all thinking and doing.

For little kids, pretend to “interview” them and write down their answers. Take it up a notch and pretend like you are one of their favorite TV or book characters. You’d be surprised at how important kids feel when you take the time to ask them questions and write down the answers–it can lead to some interesting conversations!

The Rules:
There’s only one rule: Continue reading ‘How to start a family holiday journal’

Helping kids learn how to let it roll–literally

Got a little kid who can’t let little things “roll off her shoulders”? Grab a small soft ball and tell her to pretend that the ball is the annoyance–the pesty sibling, the dog, her anger that you’re out of Lucky Charms and she’ll have to eat eggs and toast and strawberries. Then ask her to stretch her arms to her sides, even with her shoulders, and lean slightly to the right.

Now roll the ball across her shoulders, shift her right shoulder down and let the ball fall to the floor. As you do this, say a short key phrase that’s easy to remember, like “Let it roll” or “Let it go.” This helps her imagine “letting something go” in a concrete way. And it’s funny to pretend your brother is a ball careening to the floor–”Whoops! There goes Jack!”

Have fun with it! Do it once or twice, as often as you like; eventually you can just say your key phrase in the moment she needs it, a little cue to help her remember to let go of the small stuff.

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